With two methods of birth control AND pulling out, your chances of pregnancy are so, so very low. Are you a worrier in general? It's hard to rest assured of things sometimes, but you will be fine. I know people who have gotten pregnant on the pill, and I know people who have gotten pregnant even when they used a condom, but I don't know a single soul who got pregnant while using two forms of birth control correctly, AND pulling out. You are being so safe, it's ridiculous. The reason people always say that condoms are not always effective is because there could always be a leak, or it could break. The reason people always say that the pill is not 100% effective is because there could always be that one time when your body decides to produce an egg anyway, even though ovulation is meant to be blocked by the pill. For both of these scenarios to occur simultaneously, something very, very strange would have to happen! You do not need to worry!
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I need help...after sex I ALWAYS worry about being pregnant. I'm literally paranoid?
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OrngeLuvrSocstar!
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We take every precaution: I am on the pill, He wears a condom, and he even pulls out and finishes in the condom when he's outside of me.
How can i relax and know that im protected. Like right now, im peeing a little more yesterday and im freaking out im pregnant? Could i be pregnant from this? Im 20
How can i relax and know that im protected. Like right now, im peeing a little more yesterday and im freaking out im pregnant? Could i be pregnant from this? Im 20
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lyrical_essence
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The truth is that, you can't actually deduce that you are 100% protected. Because even though you use condoms, pills and stuff, sometimes...things would just happen. So what I would advice is, just have sex only after you are married to him so that he would not be able to shirk the responsibility of the baby. But if you really do not want a baby, then I advice you to try out the Intra-Uterine Device (IUD) method. The IUD would prevent any formation of the zygote as it prevents it from being attached to the wall of the womb. IUD is a temporary contraceptive method.
You need to relax, sad though that no method is 100% effective.
If this is really bothering you then maybe you should try other forms of intimacy. Find our why you are really not feeling comfortable.
Do you feel you have a lot to lose if you become pregnant?
Are you afraid the guy may not be the one?
Do you feel ashamed of the situation?
Its never to late to change if you are not comfortable.
Short of getting an operation (which can sometimes fail too) you are doing everything right that you should be doing to protect yourself.
Find out why you are feeling so anxious, if you don't you might end up associating anxiety with sex from now on and condition your brain into this cycle. It wont be healthy.
Calm down and think for a while about what is in your mind.
If this is really bothering you then maybe you should try other forms of intimacy. Find our why you are really not feeling comfortable.
Do you feel you have a lot to lose if you become pregnant?
Are you afraid the guy may not be the one?
Do you feel ashamed of the situation?
Its never to late to change if you are not comfortable.
Short of getting an operation (which can sometimes fail too) you are doing everything right that you should be doing to protect yourself.
Find out why you are feeling so anxious, if you don't you might end up associating anxiety with sex from now on and condition your brain into this cycle. It wont be healthy.
Calm down and think for a while about what is in your mind.