I need bf help...we argue a lot, what to do?

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Okay me and my bf(who is 2 years younger then I am) have been arguing A LOT. Okay last night we had another argument. I was already mad at him for canceling plans with me. So I tried to ignore that and forgive him. But what really frustrated me was that I really needed someone to talk to, and he wasn't there for me. Well he started texting me and we talked He wanted to meet up tomorrow but I was unsure. So we talked more and again I got mad and something came out and he took it the wrong way. Basically I said "I don't see why I don't even bother" and I was talking about the relationship. He interpreted it in a way where he thought I meant I don't care about him or what happens to him, I tried to tell him that I do care about him. But now he's ignoring me and I don't know what to do. What should I do?
 
he'll come around. maybe write him a letter explaining all of this, and other things in your relationship. that you don't want to fight anymore and whatever you want! go to his house and give it to him. you don't have to stay there. just say, i want to give you this. read it if you care about me. if he reads it things should be good. if not, then he isn't worth it. he should be there for you and listen to you when you need it. if you are going to go further on in life, why stay with someone who isn't there for you. a relationship is meant for you to be able to turn your back on eachother, lean on eachother and be there.
 
I'm onthe same boat, I'm constantly arguing with my partner but over the most stupidest things. Guys can be so imature at things and usually interpretates thing incorrectly and ofcourse that leads to a major fight! If you really love this guy and you want to be with him then you have to believe that this is only a period in the relationship that is shifty. I have been with my partner for 7 years and we've been through hell and back. There were times when we constantly fought and sometimes for 3 or 4 months we wouldn't have one fight. So the best thing to do is meet up with him and tell him you want to work this out once and for all! Good luck!
 
Seek the best time for the both of you, have a time to explain it well for him. Don't make him confuse more while your explaining, just make it straight to the point. You should show him that you are already giving for him a big effort just to explain what you've done towards him.

Well, having a relationship should have the initiative to understand in each both sides. Let the two sides explain, but don't give negative reactions yet if your boyfriend is still explaining. OKAY? :)) i hope i did help you a lot in your problem.
 
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