Kiara Jade
New member
PLEASE HELP!!? I'm going through a really rough time with my pregnancy mood swings. I also suffer with manic depression & i am unable to take my medication because i am pregnant. Sometimes all i want to do is cry. My partner is not at all supportive! Ill be lying there cry & he'll tell me to stop acting stupid(yes, he really does say that!) & tells me i'm acting crazy. Than he wonder's why i cry hysterically for hours while he says stuff like that to me. Last night, i literally not just cried, but screamed for 4 hours straight begging him to help me & to listen to me. All he did was say nasty things to me & tell me he was going to leave if i didn't 'shut up', among other things that happen. We have allot of other issues from our past(the baby wasn'tt exactly planned) that he continues to bring up. I try to explain to him that i do care about his feelings & i understand its hard for him awellll, but he needs to let these things go while im pregnant because its hurting the baby as well. But his continuously saying that he needs all these things from me that im unable to give him when his treating me like this. Andoesn'ttt understand why. Im aware that this is abusive behaviour, even tho hedoesn'ttrecognizee, i sodidn'tt need to be told. But all these things are putting alot of stress on me, i literally cry everyday! And i feel like im failing as a mother already because my tummy is my baby's first home, the baby feels everything i do & i feel, abused, alone & neglected. It hurts me that my baby has to feel these feelings! PLEASE HELP ME! I NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO GET THROUGH TO MY FIANCE! ITS DEVASTATING!!! I WANT ADVICE ON HOW TO GET THRU TO HIM ASAP!!