I need advice/help fast! On Friday we had a formal at our school and I declined

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a dance with this guy I like? You see i really like him but i don't like dancing , and my friend was telling him to so he asked me to and i said no and i felt horrible. Then later in the dance the same friend to him to ask me again of course i hadn't changed my mind but i was really mad because i had told her i didn't want to dance and also she was like pulling me and pushing me an wouldn't let me go. So actually I have two question... one is should i be mad at her? i have to get along with her for soccer, we actually have a game together tom. but should i let it go or should i hold her accountable. and second is after the dancei went online and i was talking to this guy and i kept telling him how sorry i was and that i felt really bad. I also told him that it doesn't mean i didn't like him i just felt really like awkward b/c everyone was pressuring me and like pushing me. and he kept saying it was okay. Then we starting talking about school and stuff. But i want to know if i messed thing up with him for good or if he might still like me...btw we were dating for a short period in the beginning gof the school year. A very short time, again i dended it and feelt horible aboutit, but now i like him more then then and i feel really bad bout this whole thing.
 
i don't think you ruined your relationship forever, although i would suspect you did hurt his feelings. it sounds like he understood when you talked to him afterwords. i think that if you asked him to hang out and do something that you like to do (something besides dancing) then he will know that you do like him. good luck
 
well i only read the title and the first line.. and you really screwed yourself over :P seriously.. the only way to get him back is if you tell him it was because i dont like to dance not because of you
 
If I were you, I would be mad at my friend. She had no right to push you and pull you and pressure you into dancing with him if you didn't want to dance. It's embarrassing when someone's causing a scene and won't stop no matter how many times you tell them too.

If you explained to the guy that you really just don't like to dance and that it had nothing to do with him, then that's all you really can do unless you feel comfortable telling him that you regret saying no and that you do like him.
 
If I were you, I would be mad at my friend. She had no right to push you and pull you and pressure you into dancing with him if you didn't want to dance. It's embarrassing when someone's causing a scene and won't stop no matter how many times you tell them too.

If you explained to the guy that you really just don't like to dance and that it had nothing to do with him, then that's all you really can do unless you feel comfortable telling him that you regret saying no and that you do like him.
 
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