I need advice about DNA testing and about my baby's father.?

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Ok. Boyfriend and i were together a LONG time. I got pregnant, and he owned up to it, and just wanted me to put her up for adoption (im only 16, he's only 18). I Told him NO, im keeping her. He talked to his friends, and they were like oh man you need a DNA test its not even yours! And they said that since he is taking chemotherapy his sperm wouldn't be strong enough. [ A doctor didn't verify this or say anything, it was his friends idea.] I am about 27 weeks pregnant, and his friend wants to take me for a DNA test. I told him that not only will I not let it happen until she is born, but they wont do it this late.. So the cheapest way to go, is I think the one from walgreens? Right?

Also, my ex boyfriend is really tricking me (same guy, who's baby father). He dumped me because "he wasn't in love with me". But we have gotten a little closer now being broken up almost 2 months now, and last night he asked me out on a date, and asked me what I think of him.. And I said Idk what do you think of me? Then he was like I really like you... Do you think he meant this in a romantic/ boyfriend-girlfriend way? Or am I looking for something that isn't there/

Also. If he doesn't want to keep her, but I do is it my decision over his?
 
yes its your decision over his..wait til the baby comes for testing...i did not know they sold dna testing at walgreens i though it had to be done professionally..chemo does reduce the sperm count but it does not make it impossible to get a girl pregnant..cancer also reduces the sperm count..

so yes he might be infertile

he might have only said that cause you might he carring his child
 
Yes; if you want to keep the baby, and he doesn't, that sucks for him, because it's mostly up to you. Your the one who's carrying the baby and is going to deliver it, and it's only your choice of what you can do with your body. Good luck & congratulations :D
 
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