I moved in with my love of my life... but he doesn't want sex? Bail or not?

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We have been dating for 4 years and he finally just got a beautiful house and he offered me to move in with him. It was fun and I thought this was going to be the relationship I dreamed of with the gorgeous man I love.

But I started noticing that every night he just snuggles and makes out with me and then falls asleep! So one day I asked him why he didn't want to have sex with me and he said, "I'm just not interested in sex"!

This can't be normal! Does he need to see a doctor or something or should I just bail?
 
Look, I know it sounds strange, but you gotta trust him! You say he is the love of your life, so love hime! Love is shown in many more ways than having sex.

Maybe he DOES need to see a doctor. Or maybe he already has seen one, and has a VERY good reason, and he just can't find it in himself to tell. You've gotta stay with him through this. I mean, I can't imagine not having sex with the woman I love, but I don't know if I'd feel that with with a disease or a virus that is sexually transmitted!

Give him time, love, and trust him. He'll open up to you.
 
Eh...see if you can get him into it. Try a few new outfits, please him a little and see if he reciprocates. However, only do this for a bit. If he still won't have sex, bail. Sex is an important part of a relationship and honestly, most normal people would cheat after a while if their spouse was never interested in sex. Good luck!
 
Eh...see if you can get him into it. Try a few new outfits, please him a little and see if he reciprocates. However, only do this for a bit. If he still won't have sex, bail. Sex is an important part of a relationship and honestly, most normal people would cheat after a while if their spouse was never interested in sex. Good luck!
 
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