me and my ex were together 2+years. during that time he cheated on me numerous time{i messed around when we were on a "break"} i always forgave him but he never forgave me. i always put my all into the realtionship, anything he wanted i always tried to give it to him. he didnt work or have a car, so i did what i could to make him happy{he's 18 almost 19 and im 17}. everything was good in the beginning, but as time went on he stopped spending quality time with me{he was always with his friends"} i will admit i did get a little crazy nd demanding because i wanted my boyfriend back and his friends never could respect the fact that i was his girl and we deserved time alone. his friends didnt like me and i didnt like them, but his friends would tell my ex lies about me and he would believe them as opposed to believing me. here's the bad part, during the 2 years, he started getting physical with me and it became an abusive relationship, but i always managed to take him back because i loved him. now we've been completely over for 3 weeks and its so tempting to text or call him because our mutual friend told me that he has completely fallen off {now he drinks and gets high}, but i am happy to stay he is still in college and is maintaining his job.
was i his downfall?
should i text, call, or visit him?
should i just let it go and continue with my life and move on?
i need help, im so confused....
was i his downfall?
should i text, call, or visit him?
should i just let it go and continue with my life and move on?
i need help, im so confused....