I met a guy online. We texted for almost 2 weeks before meeting. I met him in person for the first time about 3 weeks ago. I have never felt such chemistry with someone right off the bat. I know he did too. He was fun, flirty, and we just hit it off. He said he wanted to know me for a long time. We had a second date a week later. He was a bit more reserved on that date. Then I went on 'vacation. He's only actually called me twice since I've known him. I don't know if he doesn't like the phone or what. He texts, but it is nearly impossible to get to know someone from text messages. I am really frustrated right now because I have no idea where I stand with him. Sometimes he's really flirty in texting, and I play along, but I want someone who really wants to know me, all of me. He texted yesterday just to ask how my day was, and I responded promptly. Then he never answered back. I would have never guessed that this was even the same guy from the first night I met him. Should I move on?
I met someone and we both felt this instant, crazy chemistry. What went wrong?
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