I know this sounds weird and gross, but I fell in love with a male prostitute. How

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robd

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did this happen? i'm a guy and I saw him several times. I told him how I felt even though I know he was just hustling me. I am not an idiot, so how did I fall for the bull? I have learned my lesson and won't hire anyone anymore. I want someone to care about me for real.I feel like such a damn fool.
 
It's rather easy to fall in lust with someone, not love. And I'm quite sure that's what you're feeling. Love tends to come later in a relationship. No one has control over who you fall for, except your heart. Your mind plays a subtle role in this process, because it can either let you lust after the guy or you can let yourself free of this lust (which could take long, depending on yourself).

Look for a real relationship - one where you know the guy is not a prostitute, or rather hustler. Choose wisely, and you'll be as happy as you were when you lusted over that guy, perhaps even happier.

Cheers` Chin up! ^^
 
Firstly, it's understandable that you'd THINK you were in love with this guy. He obviously did his job really well. Male escourts/prostitutes, or good ones in any case, have YOU as their focus You pay them to give you all of their attention, both physical and to some degree emotional. It's that feeling of being appreciated, wanted etc. That doesn't mean it's love! And you need to face the hard truth that this man spends time you only because you pay for it. It's good that you feel that a "damn fool" because it's dangerous and sticky place (excuse the pun) you're in.

If you want someone to care for the real you, then you need to find that person socially, not economically.
 
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