I know this is a mean topic to discuss , but just curious to know that if you...

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***Dark~Angel***

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...could turn back the hands of? time would you have had kids/kid ? Or do you wish you had them with someone else would you change that ?
Well what I mean is like if you was unprepared to have children and if you could do such a thing and I know it's impossible and so is your lil chocolate princess over there she ain't no princess so slap yourself on the wrist .
And no I didn't ask this in the parenting section yet but I should maybe I would get more realistic answers not all this blah blah crap kids are my world bs yeah you can say all that cause they are already in this world and there's nothing you can do or say to get rid of them.
 
If i could turn back time, I would not have married my ex husband. If I could only turn time back to my marriage i would have had one child instead of three. They are all adults now and i have a good relationship with them but when they were teenagers, i often wished that i did not have them.
 
Well to be honest I had a child when I was NOT ready with the wrong person. I love her to bits but I tell you I wouldn't make the same decision twice. She's my life but I wasn't what I Really wanted to be doing in life.

If I had my 'ideal' situation I think I would of been married first for several years and probably have one child in my mid thirties. That's what I would imagine.

Im 27 now and have one 2 year old and I think because of my timing that will be it. Im newly single and to meet, marry and have another child is just not going to happen anytime soon. I also don't want to be raising children my entire life.

Don't get me wrong. I LOVE my daughter and she's been a great joy in my life. I would die with out her. Its just not what I pictured my life to turn out like.

Hope this answers your question.
 
The only thing I would do differently would be to have completed my education and "lived" a little before having kids. But if I think about it, I might not have the beautiful kids I have now. They were born at the right time, with the right person, even if the marriage didn't work.
 
So, let me guess...you asked this question in Parenting section and it was deleted, huh?

My husband is my entire world. We have 2 puppies and there's no one else I'd rather be with or have my life and puppies with. That's what we have right now for our little family. There are still some people out there who marry for love first then decide to have kids.

Good luck.

Add-- Haha...yeah, you go right ahead and post this in the parenting section. I need a few more good laughs tonight. Seriouslly, is it so hard to believe people love their kids? The parenting section would not enjoy this question.....
 
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