with the girl he was dating right before me 'on occasion when she hit's him up'....we have currently been in a long distance relationship for 3 months and together for approximately 6 all together. he is coming home next week for good and we very are serious.
however, i didn't realize that he still chatted with this girl on aim and fb. i have obv seen her on his fb when she comments on stuff or whatever, but i wasn't under the impression that he maintained convo's with these girls prior to me.
he told me he loves me months ago and continues to tell me almost everyday including the reasons why and that he wants he's 'in love' with me...etc. I do feel he is genuine and i love him the same right back.
however, honestly...ladies and men...with this social networking on the rise...and the opportunity to "chat" on fb, and aim and all of the other different ways to keep in contact with previous flings/ exe's.....what is appropriate in a relationship?? in your opinions??
honestly, i think that if i knew that SHE was completely over him...it wouldn't bother me a bit. but the fact that she still wishes she could be with him/ is jealous of our relationship makes me wonder what is beneficial about maintaining any sort of relationship..
please your thoughts.
and no i am not super insecure or jealous...but do feel threatened on occasion.
however, i didn't realize that he still chatted with this girl on aim and fb. i have obv seen her on his fb when she comments on stuff or whatever, but i wasn't under the impression that he maintained convo's with these girls prior to me.
he told me he loves me months ago and continues to tell me almost everyday including the reasons why and that he wants he's 'in love' with me...etc. I do feel he is genuine and i love him the same right back.
however, honestly...ladies and men...with this social networking on the rise...and the opportunity to "chat" on fb, and aim and all of the other different ways to keep in contact with previous flings/ exe's.....what is appropriate in a relationship?? in your opinions??
honestly, i think that if i knew that SHE was completely over him...it wouldn't bother me a bit. but the fact that she still wishes she could be with him/ is jealous of our relationship makes me wonder what is beneficial about maintaining any sort of relationship..
please your thoughts.
and no i am not super insecure or jealous...but do feel threatened on occasion.