before we got back together.? My fiance and I got back together 8 months ago after being a year apart and I just found out today that she had a fling with a guy, apparently they had sex. I stayed abstinent for 2 years. Is it unfair for me to feel like she cheated on me even though we broke up?? It kinda feels like she did in a way. She told me at the time of our break up that she didn't want to get physical with any guy. What would you do?