I have no motivation to do anything and I'm depressed. Advice?

ethansmith918

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Three years ago my mother died when I was 12, along with a couple friends and other family members.

I've been depressed for three years.
I don't have motivation for my school work, my house chores, activities, my friends, etc.
I never had a girlfriend.
I'm pale and out of shape.
I'm constantly physically weak.

I also think over the years I've become some-what bipolar. Just the other day, I was (trying) to wash dishes, and I tried to ask my little sister for a favor or question and she completely ignored me and went outside and closed the door. I got mad, ran over to the door, and with my slippery hands from the soap, I couldn't open it. I threw the glass bowl across the living room, which shattered, and I screamed as loud I could. Just because my sister didn't hear me at first. I'm the same way with smacking from food. If I hear it I will seriously try to fight someone to make them stop.

I can't get any sleep anymore. I'm just wide awake. The only time I can sleep is during the day after school.

I can't find any activities that I'm good at. I don't have any talent. I bought a guitar, didn't have any motivation to play it, and never picked it back up. The same way with the piano.

I been thinking about buying some pot so I could just relax and be happy for once.

When I go to school, I seem happy. Everyone thinks I'm the class clown in a way. It's just a mask.

Over the past few months I've actually started to contemplate suicide if I never did anything with my life and didn't get a career and a wife and a kid. That's the only motivation I have left. To have a child. That's my last hope for anything.

I know I need help. I'm going to tell my father about it soon if this gets worse.

Do you have any advice for me? ( Don't give me that religious crap like "Just pray to JESUS CHRIST and everything will be OK!!". It's not going to help it's just going to p*** me off.)

Thanks.
 
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