Geek in the Blue
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Im a guy and I struggle with intimacy issues. Im not really interested in relationships, but sometimes thinkng about it is nice. Some people are designed to be single. Non-sexual isnt the right term, but its the first one that comes to mind. Maybe a good solid friendship is the ideal relationship rather than an intimate, physical one. I was physically abused between 6 and 7 years old and have never had a serious girlfriend in all my 20 years. I want to kiss and love a girl but theres like a force field that blocks me from doing so. I have issues with PDA too cause I feel like people are staring at me and I hate that feeling. it is so bad that my family thinks I'm gay because I've never had a serious girlfriend. Help!