I have enjoyed a lot of rough sex in my life, but usually with girls I was not

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that serious with...? Now I'm dating a girl that I adore but who seems to be a bit inexperienced. I'm hesitant to bring up the fact that spanking her, pulling her hair and calling her names would turn me on because I don't want to lose her if she turns out to be freaked by that sort of thing. But I really do want to do these things with her. Any suggestions on getting vanilla-girl to turn into wonder-freak woman?
I gotta say, it is a complete turn on that most women who answered this question did so with the intention of helping me spank, butt f**k, and the pull the hair of my girlfriend all while calling her names. It gives me hope that civilization is just a thin veneer and that we're all wild freaks just below the surface. Thanks ladies!!
And yes Affrika...I do fish hook. I also occasionally spit. :)
 
Come out of the closet and tell her that you are a sadist. If she doesn't like masochism, then time to break up. You cannot change that anymore than you can change sexual orientation from gay to straight or straight to gay. Unless you want some assault charges and a sex offender record, you better speak up first.
 
First, have a conversation with her 2 get an idea of what her thoughts are. Then u can go 4rm there after u find out how comfortable she is. She may surprise you.
 
Well for one...me and my boyfriend both like this stuff...ive been with him a year and a half and lost my virginity to him all taht time ago.

i don't really remember how we both introduced what we liked to eachother.

i think you should try slow sex....she how she reacts
then try going a bit fast ....see how she reacts

from experience i know slow sex gets me moaning occassionaly...whereas fast sex gets me screaming.

if her reaction is like this to fast sex it probably means she likes it
after getting her into that try rougher positions like doggy and you on top with her legs on your shoulders

again, if she likes this try spanking her bum occassionaly - don't get carried away (save that for when you know what she likes)

its all trial and error .. if something turns her off explain that its ok, you were only seeing wat she likes

aternatively....try talking to her first and reassure her that if she doesnt like it its ok
 
for the most part, if you could find a way to render her unconscious you could pretty much do whatever you want to her.
 
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