There is a great looking man, who works in the department near my department. I remember the first time that I had seen him. I was on break with a co-worker--this is when I first seen him--he sat at the same table as we were sitting at--and he sat right beside me. He talked and was really nice. I had thought, he is so good looking. I have only said hello to him one time. This man has been watching me, since the middle of last year. I am 35 years old, and I am so nervous when he stares at me. I just don't know how to get up the nerve to speak to him and stare back into his eyes. I want to speak to him, but I just get so nervous and turn away--I get so nervous that my heart begins to start beating so fast. This is just ridiculous. I saw him today, and he is so calm--and he is so nice and so considerate. When I go to the restroom, then within minutes he is walking down the hallway, on his way to the restroom. He calls my department, and he always calls my extension. Why doesn't he just talk to me or at least say hello to me? What do I do? How do we get over this silence and just talk to one another? Is he waiting to see if I am interest in him, is this why he just stares at me?