past year. I was not? doing my housewife duties and that turned him off. He told me that our marriage was cold and that it was better that we seperated. I refused. We were doing good but it seems that everytime there is an issue it affects our marriage. I still think about the past even though he said he forgave me. What do i do so I can feel better and for our marriage to have the spark again?
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I have been married for 2 years now and me and my husband have been arguing for the
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You need to sit down and re-evaluate your life. If your marriage and your husband is what you want, then it is your biblical duty to submit to him and not withhold your body. He is to lead your household. Stop worrying about what he is doing or can do for you.
IF you want that spark back, you do what you did to get him to marry you in the first place...dress up - tackle him (in a sexual way). Tell him how sexy he is. How thankful you are that he is your husband. Boys aren't really that difficult....they all like their ego stroked - among other things.
IF you want that spark back, you do what you did to get him to marry you in the first place...dress up - tackle him (in a sexual way). Tell him how sexy he is. How thankful you are that he is your husband. Boys aren't really that difficult....they all like their ego stroked - among other things.
I really think you should both go to counseling to open up the lines of communication. The past is the past, if there is going to be a future, that is what needs to be focused on. Everyone can bend or compromise, but if you cannot resolve these issues, they can break you up.
You ask a question with not enough detailed information for anyone to give you a sound , logical answer..You both sound very immature.. I would be curious to know your ages.. Also .. Define Housewife Duties .. Do you mean cooking , cleaning , shopping , etc. or do you mean sexual ?? Sorry luv I really don't think you know what you mean ... good luck ...
bandaid_46
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It sounds like neither one of you is mature enough or responsible enough to be married. It doesn't take much to fight. All you have to do is think you are 100 percent right and the other person is wrong. And hold your ground.
Only a fool would want to stay in a relationship that is nothing more than one long argument. Think about that.
Only a fool would want to stay in a relationship that is nothing more than one long argument. Think about that.
Cracker Jack
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Do your wifely duties more often.
Cracker Jack
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Do your wifely duties more often.
Duties? Are you a homemaker? Is he the one working outside the home and you inside of it? If so.. do your job.. and that means keeping the home clean and tidy.. if you work outside the home as does he.. you both share the work load at home as well. He forgave you? For what? Not keeping the house clean enough? Please! All issues affect marriages, it's how you handle those issues that matter the outcome. Talk, don't argue. Arguing is for immature children.
You two need to sit down and talk about what is really affecting your marriage. It sounds to me like you and your husband don't have much communication. And fighting is not communicating. Sit down, just the two of you, quietly, no yelling or pointing fingers, and discuss what is really causing all the problems in your marriage. Come on now, you two were in love when you got married. Right? It's only been two years. There's just not that much that can go wrong in 2 years.
Sit down and talk!
Sit down and talk!