I have a weird question about my friend having sex?

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Niki

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Okay, so yesterday me and my bestfriend went to our friends apartment. We met up with her boyfriend and about 4 other people. My bestfriend and her boyfriend went to the bedroom and they had sex for like 3 hours. It was her first time, but not his. After she told me, I felt so weird. She was all cool about it and I don't know, I felt so..I don't know how to explain. I told her I didn't think they should have sex because

#1 they're really young
#2 they're so many risks (she is not on birth control)
#3 they always always fight.
#4 they've only been dating for 3 weeks.

We were all gathered in the room and they were all just talking about sex and what they had done with other people. I didn't say anything because i am the only person within my friends that hasn't done anything. It was kinda embarrassing. I just want to know why maybe I felt so weird...because i really have no idea.
If it helps by the way, me and my bestfriend are 15 her boyfriend's 16 and everyone else is 15-16.
Please and thank you!
 
She will regret having sex so young with someone she doesn't love. You should not feel embarrassed at all! You will be very happy if you wait for the guy you love. Wait as long as you can, 15 is too young to be having sex. If your friends try to pressure you or make you feel bad because you haven't had sex then they aren't your friends.
 
DONT FEEL WEIRD!
and please dont feel pressured into havin sex if you dont want to!
Its really not worth it,
ive learned,
and most boys just use you anyways.
Wait till your wayy older and find someone that really loves you!
You wanna wait for the one that cares about you!
Your very right about your friend, and she may have to learn the hard way! Dont be embarrased because bein a virgin is a GREAT thing!
 
pleaseeeeeeeeeee keep your virginity untill you really feel your ready! Your friend was a bit dumb, i'm 18 and i lost mine at 14, i didn't care then but now i wish i had waited you know? its something youll understand in a couple years. Sex has so many risks its ridiculous, theres way to many gross desieses going around to not take it seriously.

Be the smart one in your group okay?
 
that's scary, don't do anything that you don't want to, i would think that doing it would be really really awkward in that situation

and 3 hours is ridiculous
 
I think deep down you know you want to have sex with someone
I feel exactly the same when my friend first did it with someone I couldn't get over it
and I used the excuses (but still true concern too) that they were too young, it was in fact illegal, and that she could have gotten pregnant...
It makes you feel embarrassed and kind of jealous because you want to do it too.
Maybe you don't but that was my experience of it

either that or you just need to tell your friend that you are uncomfortable with them talking about sex in front of you :)
don't do anything you don't want to xxx
good luck
 
I agree with the first guy.
Dont let them peer pressure you.
Ive been with the guy I lost my virginity to for over 2 1/2 years now.
Call me whatever you want but I think sex should be shared with someone you really love.
Why are kids these days so stupid?
 
For a lot of people, sex is just an awkward topic.
I think you're right, though. They shouldn't be having sex but the choice is all up to them. Try to explain to your friend that you care about her and you don't want to see her hurt/with a disease/ or pregnant.
You sound like you've got a great head on your shoulders.
 
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