I have a very submissive girlfriend...who wants to be my "slave" is this lifestyle

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The Red Vanguard

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so bad if we both enjoy it? Because I really do...I love her a lot but we both like it when I treat her like a sexual "slave"...is this sexist? or is this immoral? I personally enjoy it as does she but I'm afraid that I feel guilty afterwards...why?

she enjoys being submissive as well...that is, when I punish her and when I reward her for being a "good girl" and wants me to decide how she dresses, her sexual habits, her schedule etc.
it's not bragging...I feel guilty. because I have visions of my parents telling me how "dirty" my lifestyle is. I just said that. and trust me, that's not something you brag about.
 
As long as yall both like, keep it up. But pay close attention to her and make sure she REALLY is enjoying it or just doing it to please you
 
its fine as long as u do not take it over board and remember its a sexual thing and know ur limit. And also always make sure its wat she wants so u wont just end up abusing her instead of making her happy. Just dont get too carried away.
 
If you two are both okay with it, then who cares what others think? Simply be careful if you take it outside the house as others may see it as abuse (depending on how you treat her in public) and it could cause you some problems.

Immoral? You have to decide that. Your morals are what matters.
Sexist? Doesn't matter if you are both okay with it.

What you two enjoy, that harms no one, is up to you...I don't ask other people how I should behave.
 
its fine as long as u do not take it over board and remember its a sexual thing and know ur limit. And also always make sure its wat she wants so u wont just end up abusing her instead of making her happy. Just dont get too carried away.
 
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