i have a question and rant for mom's who took a long time to finally conceive?

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hi Lady's i will be 25 weeks tomorrow and as i was watching cnn last night about the octuplet mom and i wanted to cry! i look at myself 4 almost 5years ago and i wanted to have a baby so bad and it took me 4 years to conceive and i lost it naturally but 4 years and i never thought i would get pregnant and i finally did and had my son in February 2008 and as i am due again in june with another boy and i can't wait,but it really upsets me that a women like that at 21 years old or however old she is can go and get pregnant with IVF using the states money,and now she has 14 kids she can't care for the right way! and wont do what is best for them i don't get it..............it is just not fair for the women who can't have kids and she gets what she wants.
sorry that is the rant part.I know people are sick of hearing it but i wanted to know if it took you along time to conceive or you were told you could not have babies and finally did how did you feel when you found out you finally got pregnant??? I myself never went to any dr's i just waited and finally i got pregnant and i thought omg i took about 9 pregnancy tests and then went to the ER to confirm it lol i am excited i got pregnant with this one too :) how about you how did you feel???
i,m sorry for my non use of punctuation my keybord is not very good :)
to yes i can!!!!!!!!!
i hope you get what you want you seem like you would be a great mom BABY DUST!!!!!!
 
that sux i know,, im so glad that things r goin well with u now, xxxxxxx

that octo mum SHITTTTS ME, what an idiot she is, shes a wanka
 
I have my feelings for the octuplet's mom but all in all I cannot judge whether what she did is correct or not. That is a personal choice of her's and she will have to deal with the consequences whether it be good or bad. The world might seem so unfair at times but know that everything does balance out. Perhaps in the issue of conceiving, you might have been dealt many lemons but there must be other aspects of your life that other might find unfair to them. (Maybe you have a very loving husband, good friends, good job, etc.) We must simple try to learn to understand and accept other people's decisions and actions just like we would want other people to understand and accept our choices and belief.
 
yeah, what an irony! I have been ttc and nothing yet. I think I would be a great mom. But again here I am ttc, and other women just get it naturally with no effort. Some things we can't just understand.
 
I have my feelings for the octuplet's mom but all in all I cannot judge whether what she did is correct or not. That is a personal choice of her's and she will have to deal with the consequences whether it be good or bad. The world might seem so unfair at times but know that everything does balance out. Perhaps in the issue of conceiving, you might have been dealt many lemons but there must be other aspects of your life that other might find unfair to them. (Maybe you have a very loving husband, good friends, good job, etc.) We must simple try to learn to understand and accept other people's decisions and actions just like we would want other people to understand and accept our choices and belief.
 
yeah, what an irony! I have been ttc and nothing yet. I think I would be a great mom. But again here I am ttc, and other women just get it naturally with no effort. Some things we can't just understand.
 
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