I have a question about sex?

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If your hymen is broken, does that mean it definitely won't hurt during sex? I'm a virgin and I was just wondering if sex for the first time will still hurt even if my hymen is broken.
 
No, because pain is often caused by you being nervous and subconsciously tensing your muscles. Just make sure you're nice and relaxed and completely comfortable with whoever he is when it does happen.
 
It's probably going to hurt regardless, because nothing as big as a penis has ever been up there.. it doesn't hurt that much, though, so relax.
 
First experiences are different for everyone even if you're hymen is already broken. It just depends on your body.
 
It's not really because you're breaking the hymen. That can easily be done before you first have sex and you won't notice much. The reason it hurts is because you're being stretched out.

It's like blowing up a balloon. When you first try to blow it doesn't quite work and it can take a few times before it easily stretches to the right shape. Then, after a few puffs, it easily blows out into shape and becomes normal. Think of it like that. It will take a few times until your vagina has stretched and opened enough so that it isn't put under pressure.

When you first have sex, be relaxed and don't think too much. That will only make you tenser, which will make it hurt more. Invest in some lube, such as KY jelly. That will really ease the process and make it better for both people. Make sure adequate foreplay has taken place first. It will prepare you and make it easier. If you jump straight in, it will hurt you far more.

Good luck!
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Its different person to person. Its not painful exactly but you will feel maybe slightly uncomfortable at first.
 
It still depends on how big the guy is. You hymen could be broken but not wide enough.
 
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