i have a bf that my mom does not know about... and she is checking my phone...

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brit

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...history..what do i say? so i have a bf... and my mom only wants me to date christians.. and he is not one. and he lives away. so i want to know what to say to my mom when she finds out about him. and i am sure that she will sooner or later... i just love him so i don't want to loose him.. and no im not just saying i love him .. i actually do.

and when we text its not like we text about sex or anything. so its not like a perverted relationship lol... its a normal one.

what do i say?
 
I think you should just tell her before she finds out. You'll work it out with her in a way
 
I'm a mom and I can tell you - DO NOT lie to your mom because if you do, then she has no reason to trust you in the future and believe me - if a parent loses trust, then you lose privileges.

Just explain to your mom that your relationship isn't about sex and that you really like each other. If she does ask if he's a Christian then be honest and tell her about him. Tell her that he's a nice guy and treats you really well. Then ask her if she'd like to meet him. I know you said that he doesn't live near you, but if you are really serious about this guy and he's serious about you, then he should be willing to make a trip to come meet your mom. That may help alleviate her fears.

But, just to repeat - don't lie! That's definitely not the way to go. Good luck to you.
 
I'm a mom and I can tell you - DO NOT lie to your mom because if you do, then she has no reason to trust you in the future and believe me - if a parent loses trust, then you lose privileges.

Just explain to your mom that your relationship isn't about sex and that you really like each other. If she does ask if he's a Christian then be honest and tell her about him. Tell her that he's a nice guy and treats you really well. Then ask her if she'd like to meet him. I know you said that he doesn't live near you, but if you are really serious about this guy and he's serious about you, then he should be willing to make a trip to come meet your mom. That may help alleviate her fears.

But, just to repeat - don't lie! That's definitely not the way to go. Good luck to you.
 
IF she looks through your phone, just change his name! to a close friends name you know? like someone you always talk to!
that way when she does check the bill, she will think you are talking to a "girl" friend! not your boyfriend!


ohh and when she ask who your talking to say your like best friends name? or something!

it worked for me.. when i dated someone my parents hated!
 
IF she looks through your phone, just change his name! to a close friends name you know? like someone you always talk to!
that way when she does check the bill, she will think you are talking to a "girl" friend! not your boyfriend!


ohh and when she ask who your talking to say your like best friends name? or something!

it worked for me.. when i dated someone my parents hated!
 
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