I HATE blabbing about my problems on the net but I don't know what to do?

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Zaether *MA*

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Please don't ignore this question, tell me what you think?

My Father has been a jerk to me, and does things in a sneaky way to try and bother me.
When my mom asks what's going on, I tell her about some of the things he's done but he denies it.

What bothers me about it is that it makes me look like the trouble maker but in reality it's really him.
Another incident was when I was drawing around the table and he came up behind me and kicked the chair I was sitting on two time and I bet if I get my mom or aunt to ask him he'll just denie it.

He also continues to kiss his teeth at me, he's smug and disgusting!

My mom isn't a strong minded person she's says it's all in my mind but when we went and talked to the pastor about this he said this to my mom, "your son is 20 yrs old, give him a little credit!, don't you think he knows when someone is kissing their teeth at him"?

See even paster can tell that my mom is in denial.

What should I do?

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Leave as soon as you can. When one parent is in denial about the actions of another, there's not much you can do with the situation.
 
Trust me, I can out babble the best of them. Looks like you're going alone on this one. I suggest you go back to your pastor and have a heart to heart talk with you pastor. That's what he/she is there for, to listen to his congregation. Individually or as a group. You have someone to talk to, take advantage of it. I'm sure you'll feel better about it.

You're now 20 year old. Maybe it's time for a little pay back. If he's sitting on a chair, oh gees I didn't see you sitting there. If he gives it out then he needs to take some back. Those are the rules of the games. A game he is playing. Why people have to play games that are irritating to other I'll never understand. I'll tell you one thing, if someone gives it to me, they had better be prepared to take it. Of course I've had more practice then you. With a little practice you'll get better at it.

Let the games begin.
 
you could consider moving out
as for your mom, sit her down and tell her sincerely that it was your father
ask her "why would i make that up?"
 
Well I suppose you could move out like everyone says, he might just be trying to getyou to leave. Or you could get proof or talk to him or your mom or both about it.
 
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