I had sex with this guy now I think I am pregnant, I am 14, please help?

  • Thread starter Thread starter nikkigirl400
  • Start date Start date
N

nikkigirl400

Guest
Ok, so I am 14 and this guy was 18, I recently met him and I had just broken up with my boyfriend. So we had sex with eachother and 3 other people were with us (2 guys and a girl, all 18/19) and I barely remember any of it because I was kind of drunk because of the whole boy friend thing. Anyway, now I think I am pregnant, what should I do, also I don't know who the father is since I slept with all 3 guys that were in the bed. How do I tell my parents, and even more how do I tell them I don't know who the dad is.

Thanks
 
Where were your parents when you were out drinking and having sex with strangers? You shouldn't even be dating yet, let alone having sex.
You're going to have to tell your parents because you've got a serious situation here -- you're pregnant as a result of statutory rape, you don't know who the father is, and you could easily have picked up an STD from having sex with strangers. These 3 guys need to be arrested and tested for what they did. And then you need to consider either abortion or adoption because you're not mature enough to be a responsible parent.
 
I thought you said in an earlier question, your parents where splitting up?

There are home test kits available at most drug stores and they are an over the counter type item to check to see if your pregnant or not. If your not, then you shouldn't have to tell your parents. If your pregnant then you have to tell them. And as far as knowing who the father is, DNA tests can determine who the father is. And because your under the age, the father can be charged with statutory rape. And I am sure you know what that means. And you should be held responsible too..."I was kind of drunk."
 
You just blurt out, "Hey mom, dad, I'm pregnant and I'm not sure who the father is, but out of the three prospects, all of them are over 18 so you can have them all arrested if you'd like. By the way, it happened when I was drunk." I'm sorry- I know that was rude and uncalled for, but at 14- come on! There is a reason the drinking age is 21. They can all get arrested for statutory rape. There is no special way to tell your parents that will keep them from being any less upset with you.
 
Interesting...so at age 14 you had like a fivesome . Anyway try to remeber who fuck@D you..it can't possibly be all of the 3 guys or ask them if they remeber.
 
thats illegal
if u dont like him
he will go to jail because he had sex with a minor!
so u can say he got u drunk and had sex with u
 
Go to the free clinic get a pregnant test done and if you can get tested
for any sexual disease's like aides or others. You are way too young
to be having sex and drinking like that with older guys.The two guys and the girl that are 18/19 years of age should be arrested for having
sex with a child meaning you. Doing this at your age will ruing your life.
If you are going to have sex use a condom. Because getting pregnant
is not the only thing you have to worry about you can get a sexual
disease that will make you very ill and maybe kill you.
 
don't you thinkyou are far too young to sleep with a guy..
it is your very major fault for sleeping with 3 guys!!!
just tell your mum,she will surely help you out..
 
What a situation! If you are pregnant, you probably won't find out who the father is until you do DNA testing when the baby is born.

Second, here's two good websites, and it will give you tips on how to tell your parents as well as some other information as well:

http://www.impregnant.org/

http://www.standupgirl.org/

Third, if your boyfriend is 18, and you are under 18, your boyfriend could get into big trouble for sex with a girl under 18. He could get jail time for it possibly.

Lastly, as a word of advice and caution, don't hang around guys who will take advantage of you like that.
 
Back
Top