I had sex with my guy friend while i was on my period and now he wont talk to me?

J

Julie Ann

New member
Hey Hey! I'm Julie and I'm 16 years old and a Junior. So here's my problem...my BEST guy friend who I've known since 2nd grade which makes us best friends for 10 YEARS!! Everyone says that we are gonna get married one day! We have dated on and off and never had sex but still remained best friends and its never been awarded for us. We tell each other "I love you" all the time even on the phone. We have gotten into sooo much trouble together over the years till both our parents hate us hanging out. I guess you could say were kinda like Romeo & Juliet lol...but now that i moved away i don't get to see him that much but my aunts hes neighbor and i stay with her a lot so i have to sneak out to see him. One night I sneaked out to see him and were hanging out talking and we started kissing and one thing lead to another and we finally had sex under the stars. But that morning i started my period and that night he wanted to see me again so i went back out that night to see him and he tried to make a move but i was like "im on my period baby" and he's like "i dont care" and so we had sex once again but for 2 hours and he held me close as he walked me to the door and as i let go of he's hand i could tell neither of us wanted to let go as we walked away till the end of our fingers ended...

Sooo that 3rd night he was with some friends who called and wanted me to come out so i did..he didnt talk to me at all! I could tell something was wrong so i left and the next day i called him and he didnt act right and he didnt even say "I love you". Soo i got on myspace and messaged he's other guy friend and asked him "Is he mad at me" and he was like "I DONT KNOW! maybe because he got blood on his dick!! but i dont know!.." i started freaking out and he wrote back "HAHAHA i was just kidding"....soooo is that what it is or not?? I still love him to death and i've cried over all this but i dont what to think..please help me!!! Is it the fact he got blood on his dick orr something else?? What should i do or should i just leave him alone...plzzz help me! and quick so i dont lose our friendship that lasted 10 years...and hopefully more years to come if i can fix this...
 
first of all. if he has dumped you because you got blood on his dick just leave it be.real love is when someone will love you no matter what. and you made it sound too dramatic. your too young to be having sex anyway. seriously think before you act. and since he had sex with you even though you warned him, and he said he didn't care...it's his own fault that he's being that way he is. and what in the hell were you doing having "sex under the stars"?? what if someone had seen you. then what? maybe someone had seen you and told him about it or something. i seriously don't know.
 
Wow I didn't read all that but maybe the dude just got grossed out because u bled all over the place. Was kind of nasty on your part. Next time, WAIT a day or two why don't u??? He'll understand....
 
probably not. if he didn't care then i doubt thats why. he's just being a stupid boy and he will eventually get over it. if he is mad about that, he's a dick himself, who shouldn't have had sex with you.
 
haha wow what can I say you had sex while your vagina is bleeding so I can't help you on that noone can it's your stupid horny azz thinking that got you into it and maybe it can get you out. Bahaha good luck
 
That's really weird, I don't know what to tell you. My best guess is that he just feels weird about sleeping with you and doesn't know how to react. It probably doesn't have anything to do with your period, esp. since you warned him and he knew what he was getting into. It may have freaked him out but I don't think that's what's making him act so strange after you've been friends all these years! But it's also weird that he must have told his friend about it. If I were you I'd be mad about that. Maybe you should just leave him alone for a while and if he doesn't contact you within a few weeks, email him and be like "wtf? at least tell me what you're upset about.."
 
Back
Top