I had sex last night with a guy I like. What now?

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honey_baby_sweetheartx3

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This guy and I have been seeing each other more and more often. Last night, kind of on a whim, we ended up having a heated night of sex.

But what now? How do I know how he feels about me? I don't want to scare him away by asking him, when maybe he just saw it as a hookup.

How can I make me and this guy into something more?
p.s. and this really sucks because of course i'm all paranoid now, and i think falling for him.
AND i'm mad at myself because I can already tell I'm getting attached
 
instead of immediately talking to him about last night, ask him on another date. pretend liek it was normal and that youre just two people who are dating and sleeping together. if he doenst call you first, take a couple of days before you call him and ask him out
 
Just take things one day at a time. Be polite and persistent, up to a point. If he's really interested in something long-term, he'll respond. If not, he won't. If you were good friends before, that should help some.

Just don't scare him away by demanding commitment right away. If you don't act like you want something long-term, then he will probably suggest it, and be more inclined to accept it, since it was his idea.

Good luck.
 
Maybe he is feeling the exact same thing as you are right now. Just talk to him, maybe he is sitting there scared of making the fist move but wants you to talk to him so badly cause he's thinkin
"What if she say it as just a hook up?" I would text/call him and just see how things are going or whatever you guys used to talk about.
 
Nope, probably wanted to at frist but now he knows what it feels like to have you so he will look else were for something better.

That's why you need to make sure your a couple before you have sex....
 
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