i had sex last night for the first time?

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Geminigirl

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i had sex with my current boyfriend of 8 months. It was really nice although it hurt abit lol. He didnt mention anything about a condom and we still had sex. he didnt come though (niether did i either). I am on the the pill i started it just under 2 weeks ago. Do you think i will be safe. And it is bad that we didnt reach orgasm or is that normal for the first time??

I really do not want to be pregnent. it says that the pill is effective the day u take it but then the doctor told me to take it for 2 weeks b4 having sex :s
 
HE didn't mention anything about a condom??? Why didn't YOU say something about a condom?

And, NO, you are not fully protected when taking birth control pills until you take it for an entire month. Since he didn't ejaculate, there's only a minimal chance of pregnancy but pre-ejaculate can still get you pregnant. So, either get plan B or start praying to be on the safe side.

Being female, it's actually pretty rare for a women to reach orgasm during actual intercourse (about 30% of women CAN but usually doesn't happen with every occurrence). So that leaves about 70% of women who CANNOT reach orgasm during intercourse. It takes a lot of practice and trial & error to figure out what will make a specific woman orgasm.

If you masturbate, show your boyfriend what feels good to you and what makes you orgasm during masturbation. During foreplay and oral sex, you would most definitely orgasm if you show him how to please you.
 
if i were you, i'd take Plan B you are not so protective after a month or so. and im going to say it takes time and more playful things for you to reach orgasm.
 
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