I had sex jan 01. my last period was dec 13,2008. I had 5 pregnancy test

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everyday from jan 11 to jan 20. all ? came up negative. I had spotting last jan 20. and very light period bright red with clot when i pee.Slimy cloth and some dark clots . sometimes at night my period will fill my napkin. but it only lasted for 3 days. Up to yesterday when i pee clot size of a pea comes with it. Im feeling all the symptoms such as breast tenderness, grouchyness, bloating and backpain up to now. I had pregnancy test this morning also came up negative. I dont want to be pregnant coz where i live puts to jail umwed mothers. Am i pregnant or am i just paranoid
 
Sounds like you are stressing so much it's causing a period delay. You should have had a positive by now if you are pregnant. I would see your doctor to be sure and check for any other problems but clots aren't a symptom of pregnancy and if it was a miscarriage you would have had a positive pregnancy test.
 
Well, the symptoms you're feeling sound due to hormonal fluctuations: normal, lifestyle (diet or stress) related, or pregnancy related.

A three-day period can happen and be completely normal. Spotting during pregnancy can happen as well, but what you describe sounds heavier than a few spots here and there. Testing after your period is due is the most accurate time. It sounds like you're not pregnant.

Using protection would be best to prevent this from happening again. But, assuming that that is not an option....

Most women ovulate at some point between Day 11 and Day 21 (counting from the first day of your period) AND sperm can live up to 6 days inside of you, though most die within 4 days. So, having sex up to Day 7 is relatively safe, though somewhat riskier after Day 4. Only the last week before your period begins is guaranteed not to get you pregnant if you have unprotected sex. BUT, if you cannot predict within a few days of when your period will begin, don't count on that last week to be safe; your ovulation day may just be late. Sex WHILE you are bleeding is always safe.
 
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