I'm having a little problem with my mum at the moment and I'm looking for some advice.
My mum is quite demanding and pushy, she forces me to get involved in things even if I say I;d really rather not. I know that deep down she means well but it's just getting too much.
She pushed me into joining the local netball team which I told her I didn't want to as it's not really my favorite sport, but she didn't listen and made me go along anyway.
To save on arguments I tried for a bit and at first it was fine but then she kept making me do all these extra training sessions every day. I was coming home from school and then training till late evening. I didn't have time for friends, homework or even time to wind down.
I tried talking to her and explaining why I didn't want to do netball anymore but she didn't listen. I then tried to write her a letter about it as sometimes it's easier to write down your feelings but she ignored it and ripped it up without even bothering to read it.
On Monday we had an argument in the morning about the netball practice and she called me an 'ungrateful little cow' and stormed off to work. I went to school on my bike but when I was about half way to school there was a car reversing which didn't see me and knocked into my bike which threw me off.
I was taken to hospital where I was told that I broke my arm very badly in three places, I broke my collar bone and I also broke my leg in four places. I am in an arm cast which goes from my shoulder down with a sling and a leg cast from my groin down which is bent at 90 degrees at the knee.
My mum has been really cold and distant with me since she came to take me home from hospital. She told me 'that at least I got what I wanted now and I wont have to do netball' and a moment ago she yelled at me taking too much time trying to get down the stairs in my casts.
What happened was just an accident and I did not get knocked off my bike on purpose. I don;t know why she is being like this and accusing me of getting injured on purpose when all it was, was an accident.
Please help?
My mum is quite demanding and pushy, she forces me to get involved in things even if I say I;d really rather not. I know that deep down she means well but it's just getting too much.
She pushed me into joining the local netball team which I told her I didn't want to as it's not really my favorite sport, but she didn't listen and made me go along anyway.
To save on arguments I tried for a bit and at first it was fine but then she kept making me do all these extra training sessions every day. I was coming home from school and then training till late evening. I didn't have time for friends, homework or even time to wind down.
I tried talking to her and explaining why I didn't want to do netball anymore but she didn't listen. I then tried to write her a letter about it as sometimes it's easier to write down your feelings but she ignored it and ripped it up without even bothering to read it.
On Monday we had an argument in the morning about the netball practice and she called me an 'ungrateful little cow' and stormed off to work. I went to school on my bike but when I was about half way to school there was a car reversing which didn't see me and knocked into my bike which threw me off.
I was taken to hospital where I was told that I broke my arm very badly in three places, I broke my collar bone and I also broke my leg in four places. I am in an arm cast which goes from my shoulder down with a sling and a leg cast from my groin down which is bent at 90 degrees at the knee.
My mum has been really cold and distant with me since she came to take me home from hospital. She told me 'that at least I got what I wanted now and I wont have to do netball' and a moment ago she yelled at me taking too much time trying to get down the stairs in my casts.
What happened was just an accident and I did not get knocked off my bike on purpose. I don;t know why she is being like this and accusing me of getting injured on purpose when all it was, was an accident.
Please help?