I found condoms in my boyfriends car? Help!?!?

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I’ve been on the pill for 5 months. I recently found condoms in my boyfriend’s new car. He was showing me this middle compartment, and opened it up for me, and bam there they were next to a bottle of shaving cream. He travels for work. He is telling me that they were in his brother’s knapsack that he gave him for work, and he didn’t want to bring them into the office with him so he put it in his car. He also doesn’t use shaving cream to shave, so he is trying to convince me that the cream is his brother’s too and that’s further proof that they are not his. I’m pretty sure his brother’s girlfriend is on the pill, but he said the bag was from his brothers job way before he started dating his girlfriend. He seems all bent up about it and is openly talking about it with his family. I want to believe him so bad, but I think they’re the same brand of condoms that I know he has in his room! Sketchy right? What should I do? Am I jumping to conclusions?


He's never really broken my trust, and he is never sketchy like this. We talk like 20 times a day when he is away. Ah! Help!
 
Well, you have two choices.
To believe him, or think he's lying.

But as your boyfriend, I think he expects you to believe him.
Do you have any reason to believe he's a liar?
Otherwise, you have to give him the benefit of the doubt, and believe that they are his brothers, or whatever. How long have you been in this relationship? If it hasn't been long, than I can understand why there might be some doubt. But if you've been in this relationship for a while, then I really don't understand why you can't believe him. If you don't have trust in a relationship, what do you have?

Be open with him. Tell him what you said here - that you're not sure if you can believe him or not. Maybe it's just the fact that you're not quite secure with him or the relationship, I don't know. But if you get to the root of WHY you're feeling this way, and communicate it with him, maybe you two can figure something out. Talking these things over is the way to make a relationship work.

Hope that helps.
 
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