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kacies21
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My husband and I got married last year. I know I am seeming selfish, but I still can't get over the fact that his mother did not do ANYTHING for our wedding. She refused to help plan, set up, organize any of it. Everyone gave us a gift but her, even people who did not show up and whom I have not met.
I know gifts are not mandatory but I feel like she should have done something, being that she is the mother of the groom. She doesn't have alot of money, but I gave her many oppurtunities to help out(making decorations and stuff).
Should I just slap myself or would you still be wondering(9 months later) what her intentions are on our wedding. I feel like she doesn't even accept the fact that we got married and she wants us to know that.
She and I have NEVER gotten along, and she always finds a way to argue with me when we visit or she visits us. I personally don't want a gift from her, but a "congradulations" or a card would have been nice at least, I think. I'm not judging her for not having any money either, I just think the parents should be the happiest to share their love and kindness when their kids get married, no matter if they hate the spouse or not.
I know gifts are not mandatory but I feel like she should have done something, being that she is the mother of the groom. She doesn't have alot of money, but I gave her many oppurtunities to help out(making decorations and stuff).
Should I just slap myself or would you still be wondering(9 months later) what her intentions are on our wedding. I feel like she doesn't even accept the fact that we got married and she wants us to know that.
She and I have NEVER gotten along, and she always finds a way to argue with me when we visit or she visits us. I personally don't want a gift from her, but a "congradulations" or a card would have been nice at least, I think. I'm not judging her for not having any money either, I just think the parents should be the happiest to share their love and kindness when their kids get married, no matter if they hate the spouse or not.