I feel like the most horrible, discusting, piece of $hit on the face of the EARTH...?

I'm sure everyone's heard this question about 20 THOUSAND times but..... I got a bit intoxicated last night with one of my boyfriends best friends. Needless to say things got a bit out of hand. I totally blame myself for it. Im DISCUSTED with myself. I know the RIGHT thing to do would be to tell my bf we slept together, but HONESTLY... he's one of those people who are like... now i gotta get even. He would NEVER stop talking about it, and eventually he would drive me to lose my frickin MIND. SERIOUS answers only please. Thanks.
Oh and has anyone taken the morning after pill and how sick did it make you?
 
Your boyfriend's friend isn't much of a friend. He probably already told everyone he knows about it. That is what sleazebags do. Maybe your boyfriend was in on it anyway. Don't blame yourself. Get a new boyfriend. Move on, and only get drunk with someone you plan to have sex with, because that is what girls do when they are drunk.
 
you are to blame and you should feel like crap.
you did a terrible thing... i don't think getting even is the answer but every guy gets back in different ways. You have to tell him and if he breaks up with you then you got what you deserve. try taking responsibility for your actions, and being drunk or what ever is not an excuse.
and his friend should get his ass kicked
 
You should tell him, and since you know hes like that break up with him. You messed up now deal with the consequences.

The morning after pill doesnt make you that sick, you feel like throwing up for a couple hours but then goes away and your all better.

Good luck.
 
You made a mistake, everyone does.

I think you should tell him. Let him know it's a mistake you feel really terrible about and just ask for his forgiveness. If he says he forgives you and then tries to "get back" at you, dump him! You don't need to deal with the guilt of having a drunken night and now your boyfriend thinking you need to be punished.

It's not worth the heartache.

EDIT: sorry didn't see your question about morning after pill. When I took it I was sick as a dog for the next 3 days. Vomiting and terrible cramps. Also when I finally got my period it was extremely crampy, more than normal. I am also sensitive to medicine so I have unusual reactions, you may experience just fatigue or nausea
 
if my gf did this to me it would be simple id leave her but what you could do is break it off with him and tell him way because it sounds like me your not in a healthy relationship as is. everyone makes mistakes but what happened wasn't really a mistake you had complete control so you can only expect the worst.
 
Your boyfriend's friend isn't much of a friend. He probably already told everyone he knows about it. That is what sleazebags do. Maybe your boyfriend was in on it anyway. Don't blame yourself. Get a new boyfriend. Move on, and only get drunk with someone you plan to have sex with, because that is what girls do when they are drunk.
 
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