I feel like people are judging me constantly. How can I change this?

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JaDaWi

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Whenever I do something, like start having fun, and other people aren't, i feel like they are judging me and thinking I'm stupid for liking a certain thing, like my taste in music, or my taste in clothes. I feel like people are always judging me. When I say to myself: "I won't care about what other people think, I'll just be myself" my mind will slowly, unconsciously, lead me to think that I'm being selfish or that I shouldn't be that way. When I start being myself and enjoying myself, and someone is looking, I get really nervous and a feeling of "STOP STOP STOP" takes me over. I try and ignore it but it's there and then I stop liking the thing thats giving me a good feeling.
 
people are judging you...all day every day...

the problem is you take other people to be valid critics of your activities.

by the way, that's how people connect with others; they see what they do, and judge whether its something they like or dislike, and if they like what you do, then they associate with you.

people who try to associate with others for the sake of just associating with them, and not having anything in common with them, and vainly trying to fit into their scheme of things, then these types of people usually recieve the harshest criticism and judgement from others, starting off with, ' what is up with you'...
 
On the Internet, you don't know who you're talking to, so you respond to people's minds. Ageism, racism, and sexism become less an issue in that environment. In a sense, people are fundamentally their minds; a strange thing for me to say, since I try to put things into functional and non-Aristotelian terms, and I just came up with something very Aristotelian.

But the mind of a person is what interests me most about them, and the Internet puts you in a position to interact with the mind, with the Third Circuit or Semantic System. You don't know their colour or gender or sexual orientation.

do search through archives on the nature of your reality, keep an open-mind too
 
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