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someone feeling this way? (Gay men)? I feel sad and guilty, I guess, that I'll never be able to have kids with my boyfriend the old fashioned way...
We're sooo not even near ready for kids, but we're talking about it for the future. And I feel like it's kinda my fault haha. I know that makes NO sense but I kind of have seen all those things with the families who have kids like... one person is pregnant, both their genes compose the baby... and I felt kind of bad that I couldn't get pregnant coz I'm a dude haha. And it's like guilt. And sadness. I was like apologizing to my boyfriend haha.
Yeah... I had a really emotional kind of moment because I was thinking that he and I can never have a kid made up of both our genes and it was making me sad. >.>
Is this REALLY weird or have other people ever felt this way?
I know... like, surrogate mothers and stuff... but it wouldn't be me and my boyfriend. It could only be one of us.
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I know... and we've been planning on adoption forever. I know I'd love the child all the same, flesh and blood or not. But I dunno. It's like the want to have a genetic child with my boyfriend... is very strong. Or at least the want to have the /ability/ to.
We're sooo not even near ready for kids, but we're talking about it for the future. And I feel like it's kinda my fault haha. I know that makes NO sense but I kind of have seen all those things with the families who have kids like... one person is pregnant, both their genes compose the baby... and I felt kind of bad that I couldn't get pregnant coz I'm a dude haha. And it's like guilt. And sadness. I was like apologizing to my boyfriend haha.
Yeah... I had a really emotional kind of moment because I was thinking that he and I can never have a kid made up of both our genes and it was making me sad. >.>
Is this REALLY weird or have other people ever felt this way?
I know... like, surrogate mothers and stuff... but it wouldn't be me and my boyfriend. It could only be one of us.
<3
I know... and we've been planning on adoption forever. I know I'd love the child all the same, flesh and blood or not. But I dunno. It's like the want to have a genetic child with my boyfriend... is very strong. Or at least the want to have the /ability/ to.