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other women have this problem? Where do I start...
Well, I'm in my early 20's and I'm recently married. I have close to absolutely no desire to have sex to be sexually active.
Before getting married, I was a virgin and did have a lot of fantasies and felt like I wanted to have sex and be sexually active (with the right person). But after my first time, all those fanstasies and desires disappeared. My first time did hurt, but I thought that eventually it wouldn't hurt and it would start to feel good, and I'd get vaginal orgasms. The only orgasm I can get it orally, and it's not even that good.
Sometimes I feel sexually aroused mentally (not sure if I'm using the correct word) but physically, I am not aroused. I mean, I find my hubby very attractive but I am just never physically aroused, even if I want to be, and I'm barely "mentally" aroused either. I feel like I'm not normal, and I want to be sexually active and experience pleasurable intercourse, but as of now I see no poitn of sex other than to have a baby, because I just don't like it. Even when my husband really tries, I can't get horny
I think there could possibly be some psychological issues that go back to a past relationship, but it's too much to talk about. I guess long story short, the first person I really wanted to lose my virginity to (my first love) I didn't get the chance to do it with. And my first time I didn't really want to do it...I kinda felt like I had to, even though I was not physically forced to.
Can anybody help me with this problem? Anybody have any personal experienced similar to this? Any suggestions or advice? Thanks in advance for any help
Well, I'm in my early 20's and I'm recently married. I have close to absolutely no desire to have sex to be sexually active.
Before getting married, I was a virgin and did have a lot of fantasies and felt like I wanted to have sex and be sexually active (with the right person). But after my first time, all those fanstasies and desires disappeared. My first time did hurt, but I thought that eventually it wouldn't hurt and it would start to feel good, and I'd get vaginal orgasms. The only orgasm I can get it orally, and it's not even that good.
Sometimes I feel sexually aroused mentally (not sure if I'm using the correct word) but physically, I am not aroused. I mean, I find my hubby very attractive but I am just never physically aroused, even if I want to be, and I'm barely "mentally" aroused either. I feel like I'm not normal, and I want to be sexually active and experience pleasurable intercourse, but as of now I see no poitn of sex other than to have a baby, because I just don't like it. Even when my husband really tries, I can't get horny
I think there could possibly be some psychological issues that go back to a past relationship, but it's too much to talk about. I guess long story short, the first person I really wanted to lose my virginity to (my first love) I didn't get the chance to do it with. And my first time I didn't really want to do it...I kinda felt like I had to, even though I was not physically forced to.
Can anybody help me with this problem? Anybody have any personal experienced similar to this? Any suggestions or advice? Thanks in advance for any help