I dont want to go to the father daughter dance with my dad? I wanna go with...

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TwilightGal

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...my friend and her dad? Ok so there's a father daughter dance saturday. I dont want to go with my dad because hes goofy, embaressing, and i dont want to slow dance with him. He works a job at night. So I want to go but not with my dad. I want to go with my friend. I am perfectly fine with dancing with her dad though. Idk why. So i begged my mom not to tell my dad about the dance. She said she wouldnt.

But she wont let me go to the dance with my friend unless my dads working that night because im being selfish. Now i see that i am being selfish. But i would rather be selfish than embaressed. So how can i convince her to let me go without letting my dad know? Or just any advice? I dont wanna hear '' Your being mean. Youll hurt your dads feelings'' i know that already. Help please :()
If only u could actually know my dad u would know what i mean.
P.S he has no friends and in the previous dances he sits in a chair all by himself.
 
2 start off, all dads r emarrasing. i bet u that there is going 2 b someone else with an embarrasing dad, so dont feel embarrased, its a natural thing :) nxt, y would u go with ur friend 7 her dad? its father daughter, as in biological father & daughter, unless its stepdad or something. if its going 2 b like dat then dont go at all. or u could also explain 2 ur dad dat its a formal thing & to try his best 2 b formal. i really dont know cuz i nvr go 2 those things. only u could decide 4 urself
 
Sorry, I don't mean to sound harsh...but you are being selfish. I am with your mum on this one.

Don't you love your dad...no, really ?

What is a little time embrassed compared to an estranged relationship for the rest of your life as you will hurt him dearly. Don't think he won't find out..because he will maybe not from your mum but definitely from someone else.

You silly girl...years from now you will be so sorry that you did not go with him and you cannot get that time back - trust me.

You are so lucky you have a dad (ie goofy, embrassing ) and all. I lost my dad when I was only 11 turning 12 three months later and I would have given anything to go to a father / daughter dance that you are given the opportunity of going to.

Trust me..please go with your dad and don't be insensitive. I guarantee you, the time will fly by that quickly you won't notice.

Please think about it carefully.
 
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