I don't like sex, what could be wrong with me?

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My life is screwed up.

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I've only ever had sex with my current boyfriend. He always wants it but whenever we have it, it is very uncomfortable for me, even when he just fingers me. For the past week, I don't know what to do, because every time he tries to have sex with me,I always end up making up an excuse because I just don't want to have sex. I have the desire, I can get myself off just fine but actual penetration isn't a joyride for me.

I have talked to him about this. He doesn't know what to do either and is starting to think that I just don't like him. Every time we finish having sex, I dread the next time we have it.
I always feel really pressured and scared before i have sex because I want to please him but I know it's not going to be fun for me and i am glad when it's over.

What is wrong with me?
 
Awww, honey, you sure you love him? Maybe you really don't want to be intimate with him because you don't love him the way you have to be when you are ready to have sex. I think when you are ready and when you are with the right person it shouldn't feel awkward and uncomfortable.
 
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