i dont know if he's gay or not.. won't give me oral sex?

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my boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for three years. i know heloves me. i don't want to leave him but recently i found out he hooked up with a guy. he said he didn't do anal sex. and i know he doesn't like him. he was just an outlet for this to happen.he wasn't sober when it happened originally. he was very stoned and drunk and when i asked him if he liked it he said "eh" and when i asked him if he was bi he said "eh." he told his friend that "its gonna suck not getting any action" since because of all this we're spending time apart. im thinking back and i would always give him head and we did have sex more than three times.. he told me that it was amazing with me.. the best with me.. but he never gave me oral sex. when i asked for it he would say "i'm not in the mood" does he just not like it? i tried asking him; he's not ready to talk about this yet.
edit: i'm not going to break it off because of this. we've been through everything. i truly love him and he truly loves me. leaving isn't an option. & he's sixteen.. are you sure he's definitely gay and not curious... or going through puberty?
 
If hes been with a guy he swings that way. The circumstantial evidence states hes bisexual. Stands out like a sore thumb. If you say you know he loves you I dont see what the trouble is, not everyone likes the taste of snatch. If thats a reason to leave in your mind then dont waste each others time and end it already. You seem to be having the most trouble with his sexuality so save yourself the headache and call it a day.
 
The simple act of him hooking up with another man makes him bisexual. Simple as that.
But many men fear the smell or taste of a women. And rightly so, a lot of women are concerned about their smell and taste.
If he's done it before, he might not like it, which some men don't. Some enjoy it more than sex, some hate it more than anything. So just because he doesn't give you oral doesn't mean he is gay, but him hooking up with another man makes him bisexual. He could also feel inexperienced, like he doesn't know what to do. A skillful tongue is the word of legend among women, and a inexperienced one is a horrible one!
 
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