I do think the one night stand is over the top hedonism, but why do you have to be married to have sex?

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I do think the one night stand is over the top hedonism, but why do you have to be married to have sex?
 
You don't have to be married to have sex, it's just society. We were all raised to believe it was wrong to have sex before marriage - but who listens to anybody, anyway. How many people actually wait until they are married?
 
Who says you do?There is a whole range of relationships that fall somewhere in the vast spread between one night stand and married.
 
i was just wandering that. because if you think about it adam and eve weren't married and they had sex or else we wouldnt be here.
 
Actually its a personal choice and anyone who mocks someone for waithing is way out of place... and i personally believe the risks of sex in general are too high, there are things that could lessen risks but nothing eliminates them
 
The biggest reason is that every time you have sex (even with protection) you risk creating a child. It is best to raise a child in a two parent home in which the two people are in a committed relationship. Every child deserves this.
 
God who is the ultimate Lord of all -says it is sin and God has a place for people who do not repent of their sin, fornication, adultery, none who engage in this shall enter the kingdom of heaven. Read the new test, you must be saved.
 
Why ask Why? If sex has crossed your mind then 9 times out of 10 you'll end up doing it before marriage regardless if it's wrong or right. If you are looking at it from a religious point of view, the bible says you are to wait until marriage otherwise it's a sin.
 
yo dont have to im christan and we believe that after marrige sex...but its diff. 4 everyone.........
 
It lends to loyalty between the couple if they do so, especially if they hold off on sex altogether until marriage. The huge downside, however, is that you've already made the biggest commitment you can make before you've brought yourselves to the higher emotional level sex brings. What if you find that there's a big sexual funk between you? Would that effect the marriage? Is that something you might have wanted to know before you made such a big decision? Altogether, waiting is a very bad idea. You may have more loyalty, but it might be loyalty to something that wasn't everything you hoped it would be. This is primarily a religious idea. Loyal couples who go to church and make babies keep the membership numbers up.
 
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