I have mono I just found, out and my boyfriend and I have sex on a regular unprocted im on antibodys now but the point is........ is ther any way that in the time that I didnt kno I had mono while me and my bf were having sex can it like linger or even effect my vag dome how? or vise versa.still linger or effect him? mind you I given him oral and then actually had sex... Sorry if tmi i just goyta knothanxx for the help serios anwsers only