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DGO22GR
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that bad? Me & my guy have been dating 4 about 6 years & living together 4 the past 4 yrs. Recently, I have just been clashing with my brother-in-law because he likes to Joke around, which is fine, but TOO MUCH. I have been nice to all his family for the 10 yrs. and helped them financially as well as them to me, but last night we invited my man's family to a wedding, which went well & after the party my boyfriends mom called that she will be arriving back from Mexico around 3 a.m. that day, so after the party which was 12 a.m. I drove from Yorkville to his mom's house in crest hill, which is about 30 minutes from the party and then go home from there which took me an hour. But I honestly did not mind because I love his mom, so we get there and we say hi and everything. My oldest sister and her husband was with me because they wanted to say hi as well & went to the wedding, my sister said it's already 3 a.m. so let's go, but before we left his brother said to me " you don't want to stay over" I said no thank you, there is nothing like your home. He said " oh you don't like my home, I said it's not that, I have my 2 nieces with me and gotta take them home as well. So we left it at that, but then he goes again saying " you hate me don't you" I said look if I did not like I would not be here, I am not a FAKE, he said well it looks like. By this time his wife is telling him to SHUT UP already, but he continued asking me " why I am so skinny? I said because I have a fast metabolism and my sister said " oh no you haven't seen her at home when she eats, she can eat, but somehow she tends to stay fit", by now my sister knew I was getting aggravated, so said Ok girls lets go now, I said OK, but had to wait 4 my man that was inside the house, by now his brother made a stupid remark to me , he said " your skinny, but why?, but some implants. This comment pissed me off and my sister heard, but preferred to keep things calm & said oh lets go now, so I got into my car and she got into hers & I am still waiting for my man in the car, when my nieces tell me that what my guys brother said was RUDE & I never dis-respected him, so when my man got in the car & I drove off I told him that his brother is an A**, he said why? I told him why and my nieces confirmed it as well as my sister, so he called his brother and told him that he did not appeciate that comment even though he was not there, but based himself on witnesses & his brother said " I did say that, but joking" , so his brother said he wanted to apologize, so we went back, since I was only 5 minutes away, but my sister left. Once I went back his brother & stepfather came to driver side & said it was a simple joke, sorry, but his mom approached the vehicle on my passenger side & said that I cannot take jokes and take things very offensively and need to stop, but i think she was trying to point fingers on me because my man finally stood up 4 me & she hated the fact that her 2 sons were in hot waters for the comment, By this time my man was out the car & let me say my nieces are hearing this, so I said to my man let's go it was 3 a.m. he just went against me & said don't snap at me, then said you know what I am staying here with my family, so I got mad because I have 3 people in my face & my man decides to stay there which means he took there side. I decided to leave with dignity with my nieces home & when I was about to drive off my man gets in the car, but he says I am full of BullSh*t, but the reality is that you don't joke like that because I could have said oh why is your wife FAT? maybe jenny craig, I know my man would of said Shut up as well as his brother, so I feel that I stood up 4 myself & nothing wrong with that......