i completely ruined my sex life do you think hes being immature?

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Kryssie

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in a nutshell:

1) we (my boyfriend and i of over a year) were watching a movie and cuddling and we got into an intense makeout session and the only thing stopping us from making love was my period.

2) he says "its too bad that we can't do it youre on your thing" and i said "yeah and this time im pretty thankful that im on it" and he says "i wonder how it feels like " etc, you know, what all men do when a girl talks about her period asking why they complain and how annoying it is when they do etc (NOTICEthat i was hanging with him while i was on it and i wasnt complaining at ALL, i was just happy being in his arms) He keeps on bringing up this ONE TIME i was home and it was really heavy and I wouldn't stop texting him which was annoying on my part, but that was ONE MONTH out of all the 13 MONTHS we've been dating!!!! and i said "you dont wanna know" and hes like "can i see?" and I KEPT ON SAYING NO but he INSISTED to see it and he PROMISED that he wouldn't Think of me any differently,AND I BELIEVED HIM BECAUSE we shave each others backs, we have seen each other pee etc other personal things like that ...........SO i decided to finally show him AFTER WARNING HIM THAT I IS DISGUSTING TO SEE AND because he PROMISED not to see me differently!!!

After the moment he saw it he was saying things like "ewww!" and keeping his head away from me and "don't touch me!" and "eww my fingers have been in there!" etc and it really made me feel embarrased for something that EVERY GIRL NEEDS TO GO THROUGH!!! which is why i shouldnt be embarrassed by it!!! And ever since he saw he has been distant with me and doesn't wanna hang out with me or do things with me, I asked if it's only for the time remaining that I have it or like for a while...and he said he doesn't know...and when we got home he said he couldn't get hot for me or masturbate to me

SO MY QUESTION IS THIS. Is he being immature about it? DONT GET ME WRONG i didnt expect his reaction to be "omg thats soo cute" but he BEGGED me to see it, he PROMISED he wouldn't think of me differently and now he doesn't even wanna see me :(

Another question I have is why would that affect us hanging out? I mean I understand if he doesnt wanna do anything for a while but to hang out? Is he just using me??
and he said that when he asked to see it he was doing it in a half kidding half not kind of way.
How Am I Supposed To Know Whether He's Kidding Or Not Like That?? Right?
 
He's being very immature. You shouldn't be embarrassed or feel insecure because you are having your period - it's a very natural thing. However, that doesn't mean you should have showed him. In summary, he got what he asked for and you got what you asked for (by showing him). Hope you both learned from this.


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you guys shave eachothers backs,what are you chimps???

why not have sex on it? i have sex when my girl is on the rag all the time,just gotta make sure its nor on anything you do not want to stain,but i would never want to look at her wit her tampon in,thats F***** nasty...he wanted to look at it? your boy is on some other s***
 
He's being VERY immature. Hello. What does he expect, of course its gonna be a little weird. He needs to grow up cause he's making you feel bad & ruining your relationship. You should tell him to get over it cause he's not gonna find a girl in his life that doesn't get a period. All of us do.
 
If anything I think you should be counting your blessings that you have found out what a nincompoop you have for a boyfriend!

Run for the hills and don't look back, he sounds very immature. Mark my words he'll never tell anyone because he knows how stupid he's being!

But in future don't go showing anyone if YOU know you don't really want to. x
 
You just prooved him wrong he cant even keep a promise on something like that, how do you expect him to promise you other things? I say talk to him about it because communication is important in a relationship, and if there's no communicating..theres no trust. And without trust, WTF do ya have???? Think about it to yourself and you'll understand!!
 
yeah that is pretty immature, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months and we know just about everything there is to know about each other and when ever i'm on my period we don't have sex we just lay around. He's seen me cry, bleed and be pretty bitchy on my period. And well i think you need to talk to your boyfriend about this. He shouldn't let something like that affect your relationship, you two have been together for 13 months he should get over it right? i don't know why it would affect your guys hang out time. Talk and set it straight
 
I have heard everything now! Don't girls or women for that matter keep anything private anymore?

He was wrong in asking and you were totally WRONG for showing!!!

He is immature and you need more respect for your privacy and body.

Yes this is an everyday bodily function but really, that is saved for Your eyes only. I bet that is one mistake you won't ever make again, to a boyfriend no less.

Perfect birth control!
 
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