I Cant stand my future mother in law?

[bunny718]

She was overly critical of my fiance growing up. She seems like such as miserable person. She started emailing me recently but when I email her she doesn't reply to my emails, for example, asking about the guest list. Should I ask her why she isn't writing me back? She knows damn well how to use email.

 

[adrie_nicole69]

Good luck cuz it only gets worse. I think my mother in law is crazy. I have tried everything to figure that woman out and to get along with her. So personally i have stooped to her level and now I look forward to irritating her. i have been with her son for almost 9 years now and we got 2 little girls. My husband and I are thinking about moving to another state to get away from his parents and put distance between us. We actually may do that in like 4 years when my schooling is done. So im counting down the years already,lol. I have even gone to counseling and complained to my counselor about her. That was a year ago. But that did kinda help. I don't let her get to me as much and I kinda just ignore her now. So I still jump at every oppurtunity that comes along to irritate her and get my enjoyment from it. Sad i know but it helps me deal with her. i think about how to get back at her. But she is evil and tells me things like when my hubby dies im not capable to care for our kids. So when we decided on who the kids godparents were going to be. i got complete enjoyment out of seeing her face and attitude when we didn't pick them. We picked my best friend whom she doesn't even know. Which it just turned out to be the best decision but they really wanted to be the godparnets. that was last year and she is still whining about it. I smile on the inside. good luck. My advice is probably not the 1 should take so quickly. wait to hear others first.

 

[Lindsay]

I would write her an e-mail that says "I was wondering if you got any of my e-mails because i haven't received anything back from you?" that way it cant be turned around on you. Mother-in-laws tend to do that. Wait til you get married, it only gets worse. oh and when you have kids you want to rip your hair out! i've learned that playing dumb is the best and least confrontational way to get what you want. Just always be nice and sweet and eventually she will get the hint or go crazy from all your kindness. Good Luck!

 

[Shlee]

Honey i hate my mother in law to, she is a money hungry B@t#&... LOL just ignore her, don't answer her emails or at least wait a long time like a day before you respond. My mother in hell is very controling but i think she is starting to learn that she will not control me, don't let her get the best of you, cause that what she is out to do. you need to tell her that this is how you and you fiance want it and that is how it's going to go