I can't have sex without love and am afraid to tell my boyfriend?

[Jacki O]

My boyfriend and I have been dating shy of 3 months, and although I want to take things slow, he's been wanting to have sex since we first started dating. The problem is, I can't have sex with someone who doesn't love me. I'm afraid if I tell my boyfriend this, he will say "i love you" (when he doesn't mean it) or try to do things to make me believe he loves me just to have sex and then split. What do I do?

 

[windmill jouster]

Hang in there and do what you are doing. If he's been asking for sex without being able to make you want it, then he is a lousy lover anyhow. Whatever you do, don't give in to him until you are sure about his feelings and your desire.

 

[rebeccawoah15]

dump him. if you think thats what he would do, then why are you dating him in the first place?
sounds like a douche bag to me!