I can't fucking come out to my parents.

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You know, in all the years that my parents were alive... I never once came out and told them I was straight. I mean, I think they kind of figured I was because of the couple of times that they caught me in bed secksing this or that girlfriend... but I'm not 100% sure.

Maybe you should let them know before it's too late! I mean I'm sure they'll just accept you for the way you are.
 
Bullshit. I need to come out in order for me to feel truly at ease with myself.

I can't figure out why I don't have the strength. They wouldn't care.

I have enough strength to lift a piece of styrofoam. I can do this...
 
Oh that's just one huge crock of shit right there. You need to tell your parents you're gay to be at ease with yourself? What, you need their approval? It matters what they think does it?

No, I think you're an attention whore and this is your way of throwing your issues back into the lime light. Take a simple issue, add a lot of drama to it and poof, we have another post from you!

Sorry, but I'm just not buying this whole "poor me, I'm gay and can't tell people" act. You're not gay or bi. You're lonely and desperate for love and will cling to anything you think that will get you those things. It's kind of depressing really. I wish you could figure out how to just be happy and settle your ass down and stop trying to impress people all the time. I think you'd find what it is you're looking for if you didn't just push so freakin' hard.
 
Yeah, because naturally I can impress people by saying "Look! I'm bisexual! And I'm the future owner of an Oldsmobile Aurora. Which I don't have yet. Because I don't have a job! Something I've been talking about getting for ages! But haven't yet!"

Your logic is shitty. But it's great in those 9/11 threads. You should stick to those.

Yes UberSkippy, my life sucks oh so bad. I'm unemployed and have no car.

Man, my life is the worst in the world. Pity me! I have no job! And my friends friends' uncle dicked me over on a job offer!

You know people who are raped and starving and have HIV in Africa? Wow, their lives are such much better than mine. At least they are CCNA certified. I'm only Net+.

Pity me. PITY MEEE!
 
I'm pretty sure you think your life sucks. How hard is it to get a job?

And yes, you come out here with your initial "I'm bi" thread and seemed to expect us to be amazed, wowed, awed and to some how give a shit. Now you've got this huge "oh me oh my I don't know how to tell my parents that I might be bi-sexual because I've had dreams about it but haven't ever done anything in real life about it."

You're always looking for a pity party or some other kind of attention. Grow up.
 
why does it matter if you tell your parents? i get with girls.. i dont go broadcasting it to my family. ive even dated a chick. they wouldnt care if i was a lesbian but i have no reason to tell them.
 
ok, after that response, i do have to agree with uberskippy. because well.. not having a job and getting dicked over.. IS shitty. although it's not the end of the world as you've sarcastically remarked, it's definately something to bitch about.. and you've clearly bitched about it.. when there was really no mention of your job situation or lack of car or what career heritage you have ahead of you but don't have yet.
he did unfairly assume that you were just grabbing for attention with your dilemma in admitting to your parents that you're bi.. and if that WASN'T the case, i would have expected a possibly sarcastic response from you such as: "Yea, it's the only way i find substance in life is draw attention to the fact that i'm bi-sexual and slightly struggling with telling my parents" etc. call him a dumbfuck, and generally keep it short and sweet. but then you're all "im the future owner of oldsmobile aurora" and we're like.. oh.. wait, what?
you seem like you just need really need to chill the fuck out. about everything. you want to come out to your parents, im sure it will happen in time. you don't have to force it.. hell, you don't have to tell them at all. just be happy being you and living the life you're living. should the opportunity arise and you want to tell them, then just fucking DO IT. you said yourself they won't make a big deal out of it, and im sure you care about your parents enough to want them to know, so that they can support you in another aspect of your life. telling them this is just helping them to get to know you better. it's nothing huge at all. relax, dude.
 
I'm confused. Descent is 18, still living at home, and he was straight, then gay, then straight, then bi, then straight, then bi, then....

and so on.

Aside from my confusion, if you are doing something you can't tell your parents about when you are an adult you probably shouldn't be doing it.

And you should get a job. I was living on my own at 16 working a full time job.
 
DG, I am certain of this and have been for years. The only time I was full blown gay was when I was taking Zonegran for mood swings. After I got off that everything returned to normal.

Women > Men.
 
You're still a kid. I think you should hold off. Things and feelings change.

I'm also "bisexual", but my parents don't need to know that. They don't care, nor do they want to know. Who I get nasty with, is my business.

Trust me, your parents DON'T want to know about your pickle-smoking/fudge-packing adventures. I would suggest holding off until you are in a serious relationship with another dude. Once they see that you're serious and/or happy, they will be more accepting (probably).
 
Yeah women may be clean and good looking, but theyre full of emotional baggage, PMSing and stubbornness. Guys are much more easy to get along with, but no so much easier to fuck. No offense girls, if this seems offensive, sorry, but you know its true. :tongue:
 
I don't see what the big deal is. Your parents should still love. Lots of people like there hole streched a bit. Nothing wrong with that.. Enema first though
 
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