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Depressedmum
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My mil is a widow in her late sixites and has been staying with us since we got married. Sad to say i have no experience life as a couple with my hubby. I am a cleanliness freak but she is quite untidy and kept dirtying my place with bit and pieces of food after i cleaned up and i can't reprimand thus building this hatred in me. My husband is very protective of her, any negative comments about his mother ends in an argument and he will start cursing and swearing about my parents and told me that he will treat them badly when they get older. I know his mother is lonely as a widow and he wants to bring his mother to our family and relative gathering but his mum speaks in another dialect and the lack of EQ in his mum seems to offend my parents and relatives during their conversation thus i avoid bringing his mum to such event. This makes him very angry and he start talking about revenge, The lack of EQ in his mum makes her friendless and her filial son wants her to join us in everything.