I can do whatever I want, and you can't fucking stop me

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sexyneverlefther

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FUCK!

Why is it that Mom's ( or Dad's) always think you have to do what they say?
I appreciate all that they do for me, but it doesn't mean I'm answerable to them. She doesn't want me to stay in a dorm so she can see what I'm doing in the daytime. She doesn't want me to go hang out with friends more than once a week.

Seriously, why the hell do I have to answer to her. She keeps bitching about how I'm letting her down by smoking the hookah and stuff. She tells me that college is about working your ass off, learning a lot, and having extremely limited amounts of fun. I'm going insane without being able to see my friends.
You can't expect me to stay home and have no social life.

FUCK! She doesn't want me to date my girlfriend because she thinks its "wrong" to date at this young age. I WAS FUCKING BORN WHEN SHE WAS 24! What the hell are you talking about?

She doesn't like it when I play my music on my computer speakers. Fine! I'll put my headphones on but NOOOOOOO.... thats disrespectful to your parents by not hearing what they're saying. Seriously! WTF?

Today, I told her I'm going to my friends house to hang out. She's like, " You can't go today, you're not allowed to". This was it for me.....I was sooo fucking pisssed off at her that I said, "I can do whatever I want, and you can't fucking stop me". Apparently that did not go own well. Luckily my dad said I was right, and I should get some freedom. He also said its time I stayed in a dorm. I DIDN'T FUCKING CHOOSE TO STAY AT HOME!

Everything has just been pissing me off lately. My research job requires me to read a ton of shit everyday. 3 classes on top of that doesn't help at all.

:flamed:

sorry for the weird ass rant.
 
I hope you pay all the bills, buy your own food, and gave birth to yourself. Otherwise, you do owe your parents a lot of respect, and the breath in your body, and the fact that you even have a brain.

And if my kid had his headphones on when I was trying to talk to him, they would be snapped in half. Over his head.

But Im not so old that I dont remember how much it FUCKING SUCKED being a teenager.

Don't worry, it gets worse when you grow up and have to make your own way.
 
DG's got a point. You should at least show her some respect and take her wishes into account when making decisions. There's also the fact that you're living in her house still, whether by choice or not doesn't matter. As long as you live under your parents' roof you follow their rules.
It sucks when you're old enough to handle yourself, but that's the way it goes.
 
I do buy food for the house whenever I can. I don't pay the bills because my dad wont let me. I stayed at home on my mom's insistence.


The only reason i wear heaphones in my room is because she doesnt like listening to what i hear. Its not my fault if she walks into my room and I can't hear her for 30 seconds



Only letting me hang out with my friends once a week is kind of retarded. I can't just sit at home the whole day and do nothing but work.
 
If they pay the bills, and you're staying with them, then you better show some respect.

But I do know parents that try to keep their kids living with them because of a fear of losing control over something. If that's the case, then get the fuck out, get your own place, and be a responsible adult. No one can FORCE you to stay there if you've got the money and the power to move out. If you're able to move out, but won't because of what mommy says, then you don't deserve to do whatever you want. You don't even deserve to make a thread to bitch about it. Sorry, I'm just being honest.:thumbsup:
 
I agree with the showing respect to thoes who have provided for you but thats a lil rediculous?? your in college so im assuming your over 18? Yet she puts a limit on how often you can see your friends??? uhhh.. yeah thats pretty retarded, and wtf is the big deal with headphones? if they dont wanna hear your music they dont have too.. a good tap on the shoulder will get someones attention.. holly shit your parents are brutal. Least your dad sounds like hes loosening up.
 
I know your only weakness Skully. Bullets. haha.

I hear this one though. Parents are always trying to control their children, even when their children are adults. I hate that crap but hey it's only life.
Geht over it.
 
I agree with the whole give your parents respect thing. But they can get on any teen's nerves every once in a while. When people say "if it wasn't for them you wouldnt be here. they house you feed you all that good stuff blah blah blah" It's true, but it doesn't help. I don't think I've ever heard anyone say, "yeah you're right, I should let my parents control every aspect of my life!" yeah it just doesn't work like that. Teens should have their freedom and parents should respect that. But teens should also respect their parents because they did all that stuff for you. So pretty much you should compromise. Freedom with... listeningness. :D
 
There is a huge difference between raising a child to be a productive member of society and raising a child to be a slave to it. Overbearing control of every aspect of a child'd life teaches them to be slaves to authority. It's not your job as parents to dictate, step by step, where that child's life will go. It is only your responsibility to ensure that the child is ready for life on their own.

I'm going to have to agree with the O.P. on this issue. (probably to the dismay of the parents in the thread who have made clear their opinions.) You're 18 now, an adult in your own right. It's time for your parents to stop the "parenting" and put it to the test. Your life is your own now, do not let them dictate it to you. The best way to respect them and the job they've done is to go forth and live the best life you can, and THEN you can say you owe it all to them. Leave the proverbial nest and live your own life. It's not theirs anymore. Their job is done. GL.
 
There are limits to showing respect. Who said, "respect is a privilage, not a right"? If my mother said I can't go out more than once a week, I'd play all co-operative then run out of the house the second her back is turned, winking to my dad. If you're mother is some fucking dictator then talk to your dad. Bypass mom. :thumbsup:

If you have to be a slave to her to prove you respect her, I'd through caution to the wind and rebel. You're only young for so long, and if your mom wants to spoil your childhood then stuff her.

A good parent earns the respect of his/her children, and bad parent forces it down their necks or doesn't bother at all. You don't have to a fucking bitch to raise a damned child. :mfinger:
 
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