sperm from the condom? me and my husband are not in a relationship but we live together and we have sex like every day but the problem is that i want to have another baby...i had a abortion on the 5/11/09 and i did that because of all the problems.and the saying day i did the depo chat...but know i want to have my family back can i get pregnant...by doing this....i know that is very stupid of me but i just don't know what to do....