I begin on depo chat 5/11/09 and i want to get pregnant can i get pregnant using the

Rose

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sperm from the condom? me and my husband are not in a relationship but we live together and we have sex like every day but the problem is that i want to have another baby...i had a abortion on the 5/11/09 and i did that because of all the problems.and the saying day i did the depo chat...but know i want to have my family back can i get pregnant...by doing this....i know that is very stupid of me but i just don't know what to do....
 
Just poke holes in the condoms LOL but really having a baby will not save your marriage or replace the one you let go. Save your marriage first and talk about having a baby together. It should be both of your decisions.
 
That is not the way to solve your problems with your family. And frankly, asking that question makes you look INSANE. If you and your "husband" are not happy NOW, getting pregnant using the sperm of a condom Definitely won't help. If you just had an abortion, why would you NOW decide you want to get pregnant?

You need to think logically about the situation and not make any rash decisions. If you want to make you family closer, you need to talk with your "husband" and see what you can work out. Does he want to get back together? If not, then I suggest you stop sleeping with him.

PS. It is 99% impossible to get pregnant using the sperm from a condom, not to mention, messy, gross, and INSANE.
 
Please dont tell me you are trying to get pregnant to save your marriage?! What if you do get pregnant but your husband still wants to not be together? Then where will you be? ...Pregnant and alone. Work things out in your marriage and THEN get pregnant. Dont bring a child into the world for selfish reasons......
 
Technically you can use sperm from a condom assuming it's viable and there was no spermicide used. but it won't be easy.

HOWEVER, and yes, this is a big "however"... doing that would be deceitful and a horrible way to try and fix your non relationship with your husband. It will probably make things worse. I don't know any of the history between you two but if I may, can I strongly urge you to get counseling with your husband and work together at rebuilding your relationship before you bring in any new additions. A baby does not tie him any stronger to you, and may create a larger divide in your relationship b/c you went behind his back to do this. Not to mention that even though babies are a wonderful and a blessing, they are also a huge source of stress and fatigue which is the last thing your strained relationship needs.
If he wants a baby, and you have sex all the time, then talk to him and the condoms may come off. But don't lie to him. Being a single mother isn't the easiest thing either and tricking him into becoming a father is a wretched thing to do.
 
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