I am very homesick, want to go home. What should I do?

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Gjalen23

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I'm in California visiting my dad for 1 month and am very homesick. Like, I mean crying in the shower and crying my self to sleep. Sometimes my stomach hurts and phone calls/e-mail's don't help. I have been here for 1 and a quarter weeks, and my mom and family in Canada said I can come home if I really need to. My question is, do I need to?

I'm constanly doing these things:

-crying for my family (when alone)
-Biting my nails off
-calling home like 4 times a day even though it doesn't help.
-My stomach always hurts when I think about home.
-Even though I am almost 12, I work-out, A LOT and it's getting harder
Anybody who says "Suck It Up" or things related, please don't answer because you are just bringing me down and I am trying my best to bond with my Dad and doing fun things (Park, Movies, Shopping) but I still am the same way. I don't know what to do!


Please don't be mean or rude when you answer because i am only 11.
 
its only one month dude, im sure you dad wants to see you think about, and plus you dad is your family.

Stop feeling sorry for youself and enjoy california.
 
i went to France for six weeeks with some cousins(mom's friends). and i was so depressed and hurt, i was only 12. and i felt the same as you, i thought of reading things that would usually take my mind off things. and i tried spending more time with them , u spend more time with our dad, once you feel closer to him, you'll feel better and you once you see what you have incommon, it becomes easier. thats what i went through.
 
Yes you should you feel very upset tell your mom you want too come home there is still plenty of time too see your father so dont woory cheer up :)
 
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