i am seperated from my wife which is serving a 8 year jail sentece for injury to a...

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Todd W

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...child, I am currantly? deployed to iraq. What can i do if my chain of command is not helping me do anyting? when the red cross messege came in in aug, 1 1/2 month early for my son to be born and had complicaqtions they denied me going home. and when i when home on regular leave they denied me an extension to try to take care of things since he was still in the hospitals and because of me not being there to take care of him the military forced me to put him in a foster home...

is there anything i can do??

now every time i try to do anyting about it the chain of command tell me to stop trying or they will put all negetive things together and give them to cps makeing me not able to get my son, pretty much threatining me with my son to shout up and deal with it. now it is hard to even put him on my insureance or anythingn becuse i wasn't able to get the propper papperwok i need when i was home and everything the cps lady and the lawyer give me are not the right stuff.

i am still leagally married because they won't finalize the diforce untill i get my son whhich i can't do untill i am there to take him.

what will happen if i don't set up a family care plan now, or if i don't do it later?? what kind of discharge would i get if any? i need to be there to take care of my son, not here in iraq, getting screwed over by people. is there anything i can do to come home and get him so i can get things done or am i screwed on that part.??
 
They shouldn't be able to do those type of things to you when it comes to your child and you are the only one that can take care of him. Just last month a female was suppose to be deployed to Iraq and she didn't have anyone to take care of her son so she didn't go and they said that if you talk with chain of command that they would have worked something out. They couldn't make her go. So please look into that because they shouldn't be able to do that to you and you had to put your son in foster care do you no how hard it is going to be for you to try and get him back please start working on this today. Always remember that it is always someone hire than the man you keep speaking with that is giving you this negative feed back good luck
 
if you have no other relatives to assist you with your son, then by US Laws and military laws must keep you home. This is a fact. It has been showing news all over our country about people like you. D.O.D. does NOT want this publicity. They want to show compasion.

Start talking with people and call your senator and congrees person.

Chain of command will bow.

Good luck and thanks for serving. P.S. I left the service becuz of the morons.
 
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